"Loving" or love meditation is an additional technique,
accelerating the process of broadening the consciousness at the
expense of subconsciousness, as well as assisting in the development
of a person into a truly loving person. This is public group training
and development of the virtues of conscious love and falling in
In his book Paartherapie und Paarsynthese: Lernmodell Liebe, M.
Coellen also says: "It is not only the aspiration at enjoyment
(Freud), aspiration at power (Adler), aspiration at security and
food (Maslow) and aspiration at meaning (Franks) that are the basic
impulses of human action; aspiration at love ranks at least equally
with all the other basic motivations. The way of developing and
modelling love and intimacy decisively create and form personality,
the modern world and the society."